It is in the human genes for both the male and female species to feel attracted to the opposite sex, and when the feeling is mutual then the courting and dating part of the budding relationship begins. To many, this is the best part of the relationship when the love is still growing and the couple cannot get enough of each other. When time passes and the bond between the two are stable and mature enough, then the idea of finally “closing the deal” and having life together swims in both their minds. The exchanging of vows is a divine event and is the peak point of the couple’s life. In the ceremony, the couple professes their undying love for each other, and proclaims that they still stay together no matter what happens until their time ends. For such a sacred event the couple would want the whole proceeding to be perfect and on the spot, so the couple would certainly spend hours and hours planning and executing the ideas to work for their wedding.
The wedding ceremony is when man and woman declare their love for each other and finally commit themselves to each other and live out the rest of their lives together. For many people, the wedding ceremony is an act that has been passed down for generations and the some of the old ways of the rituals must be practiced. However, more and more young couples are choosing to add their own twist to the wedding reception and ceremony itself by having their ceremony held at the outdoors. They chose the outdoors because they want to be different from others and wish to have a wedding that they can be proud of and remember for the rest of their lives. Some of the chosen sites for the outdoor wedding would include famous hotel sites and also backyards of close friends which are popular among the newlyweds.
In order for the couple to have their dream wedding, the first and most important thing they must do is go through the planning stage carefully. The best way for the couple to do this is to sit down and spend time talking and discussing about the decisions they have to make about the wedding and make sure they are on the same page. There are some couples who find the tasks of managing the whole wedding ceremony and proceedings too burdening for them, so they hire a wedding planner to take over most of the tasks and preparations for them instead. Besides taking over the troublesome decision making and wedding preparations, the wedding planner would be able to provide different ideas and what kind of theme you can apply for your wedding since they are professionals and are experienced in this field.
These planners would also give great assistance and support in hunting for those wedding supplies, wedding favours, and wedding cake toppers and even bridal accessories. With a wedding planner, the couple eliminates the need to spend 200 to 300 hours per week just to survey the shops and make a list of comparison from which they will choose later. It can be quite an overwhelming and daunting task as there would be a number of shops to choose from. What’s more, because wedding planners has direct access and direct network with other wedding providers, they can provide a worthy reception with the right and reasonable price for the whole wedding.
Most of the people think that when you engage the services of the wedding planner then the couple just leaves it all to the planner to do, but it is wrong. The future husband and wife would have to prepare to work together with the planner to make the final decisions regarding the acquiring of the wedding goods and the required services such as the catering and waiter and ushers. This is important since it is their wedding after all. Because of its importance, the couple must work hard to find the wedding planner that is suitable for them not just in terms of professionalism, but also in terms of personality and attitude. The couple must feel comfortable and relax when discussing about the expected wedding theme and also their working budget for the wedding.
It is always better to discuss everything out in the open during the initial process to eliminate any stressful or incompatible ideas and disagreement that you might later have with the wedding planner. Simple things like wedding supplies or wedding favors can really create a lot of misunderstanding. As you have made your intentions and goals clear to the wedding planner and they in return are also to understand and are agreeable of your desire, it is time to work together with them. Once you feel confident and at ease with your choice, do make sure to have everything that has been agreed upon mutually written as a contract.
No matter if you decide to go all out and do the whole wedding preparation yourself or find a wedding planner to make life easier, it is always important to remember that you will have to be firm when making your decisions. Others would be giving you endless ideas on how the wedding should be but always keep your own interest in mine, since it is your wedding at hand. This wedding is going to be your memory to keep for the rest of your lives and you wouldn’t want any regrets about it.